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Fed up by Freud  

2005-07-08 03:06:31|  分类: 默认分类 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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Guess I've been reading too much of Freud's work recently,
The Interpretation of Dreams,
The Psychopathology of Everyday Life,
Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality,
A Special Type of Choice of OBject Made by Men,
The Taboo of Virginity,
"Civilized" Sexual Morality and Modern Nervous Sickness,
Dora: An Analysis of a Case of Hysteria.
 

I enjoy so much of his book and really inspired by his brilliant and revolutionary idea in this area, but I’m really a little bit fed up by the Oedipus complex lies in his book everywhere.

 

It’s for sure most of the cases girls love their father and think the father is the greatest MAN of their life since he might be the only man does stay in their life until the death do them apart exactly same as the wedding vow, none like the other men they come and leave. (Long live to all fathers!) 

 

But still I was wondering sometimes whether the Oedipus complex is the 100% truth or not. I tried to look very deeply inside of myself, to think about the deep love between me and my father , but the only thing I see is just a perfect father, no more, no less. Maybe I just don’t really know myself or try to deny my sub consciousness and unconsciousness.

 

The other MAN I full in love deeply and have an 8 years relationship (the no. is still growing, interesting to see how big it will be) is someone totally different from my father. He always takes good care of me and is patient to me: call to check if I feed myself on time when he is away, make sure that I put on warm clothes when winter comes, does everything I ask him to do……. Sometimes I think he plays more a mother role in my life. If Freud is correct, hum ……. Maybe I’m actually a boy trapped in a woman’s body and when I was young my mum paid more attention to my brother, so what I really need is someone like my mum but only pays attention to me. But in that case, I should hate my father as a son according to Freud’s Oedipus complex, but I don’t, I love both of my parents so much , maybe my father a little bit more or let's say different way to be honest,    ……..  

 

No, No, No…….. I’m confused and totally went out my mind. Maybe I didn’t understand him correctly; I should go back and read more. Actually there are few more books of Freud’s on my reading list:

Taboo and Totem

Leonardo Da Vinci and a Memory of His Childhood

On Narcissism: an Introduction

Freud & Jung 

Maybe I should continue to read more although I did get myself totally confused. Just think it won’t be worse to be more confused.

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