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Is Gender an Illusion?  

2006-05-17 13:46:11|  分类: 默认分类 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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At home, we have a pair of cups for coffee, one is blue and the other is red and they are always put next to each other. At least in Chinese culture which impacted strongly by Daoism, a conception of “Yang” represents male while Yin represents female. Because of that, cold color is attached to men and warm color got attached to women. Since I’m so against the men should be like this and the women should be like that thing, so usually I insist my boyfriend should take the red one and I will use the blue one.

 

Inside of my mind, I kind of go through my decision process like this: I am a woman but I hate to take the color they attached to female, so let me take the blue one.

 

But somehow every time when I try to make a cup of coffee for myself, I stare at the pair of coffee cups and go through my little process then suddenly I found I’m holding the red one.

 

What’s wrong with me?

 

Is there no way to run away from your fate? Or deep inside, I consider myself a man (It went through like I’m a man so according to my own rule I got to take the red one.)? Or only because the red cup looks prettier than the blue one? Is that makes me still a woman, because women like pretty things? Or men like pretty things as much as women, but they just try to hide it otherwise people will think they are gay? ......

 

I ‘m confused. Is gender, sex orientation are all just an illusion? We all have a male and a female, a straight and a non straight live inside of us? Or I've been torn down by too much thinking about all the ideology and I'm ill mentally, now need to see a shrink.

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